• Skip to main content
  • Skip to primary sidebar
  • Skip to footer

Jessica's Dinner Party

by jessica yoon

  • Home
  • About
  • Blog
  • Recipes
  • Selected Work
  • Contact

How to Make a Dessert Bar: The Favor

September 28, 2012

wedding, dessert bar, berry, lemongrass, jam, favor

After doing a bunch of test batches I decided to go with the berry-lemon jam with lemongrass!  My sister really loves that flavor to begin with and one of the best dining experience I’ve had with her and her fiance was at Kiin Kiin in Copenhagen, a Michelin starred Thai restaurant that uses a lot of lemongrass. The deep red color fits right into the wedding venue (a winery!), the flavor is familiar but with a twist, and it actually required the least about of prep work!

wedding, favors, dessert bar, table, jessica's dinner party

wedding, dessert bar, berry, lemongrass, jam, favor

Once the flavor was decided, the first thing I did was buy a canning set (dark pot in the back).  It includes all the items needed to do a proper canning job. I also made sure that we can some big pots at home to cook the jam in and sterilize the jars.

My sister and I picked these jam jars months ago, so I had pre-ordered them ahead of time. Right before cooking I ran them through the dishwasher.

wedding, dessert bar, berry, lemongrass, jam, favor

Jamming took a total of three and a half days.  I made seven batches of 20, making a total of 140 jars. 100 are for the wedding guests and the rest are extras for the people who aren’t able to make it (ie. couldn’t be invited because the venue was too small!).

wedding, dessert bar, berry, lemongrass, jam, favor

wedding, dessert bar, berry, lemongrass, jam, favor

wedding, dessert bar, berry, lemongrass, jam, favor

It was a bit of a tedious job, with lots of stirring, pouring, cleaning, and transporting between pots, but after batch number 3 I got into a bit of a rhythm and found a good system that worked for me. Organization is key! And a little help from other family members didn’t hurt.

jam, favors, wedding, dessert bar, jessica's dinner party

Originally, we planned on finishing the jars with a cloth cover (inspired by my favorite, Christine Ferber’s jam which is the pink with polka dots on right), but I didn’t find a fabric that I really liked.  So we decided to go with just a raffia tie string and label.

wedding, favors, dessert bar, table, jessica's dinner party

 The favors are also serving as escort cards, so there are two tags. One that has each guest’s name and table number, which I hand wrote, and another that has the name of the jam. My sister and fiance insisted that I write Jessica’s Dinner Party instead of their names, so I stamped that on there too. They have been SUCH big supporters of this site and my culinary career.  It was actually the DSLR camera that they gifted me that jump started this whole chapter in my life, so all of this holds an even greater meaning to me.

The wedding is actually tomorrow and although I had planned on updating the process as it unfolded, wow, time slipped by so fast…and there were just not enough hours in the day!  This last week I think I worked those same restaurant hours, from when I woke up to right before I went to bed.  It was really tough and there were a lot of obstacles and mistakes and even more stuff in the freezer for us to eat after the wedding, but it really was all worth it.  We’ll have to see how everything sets up tomorrow, but at this point, there’s nothing more I can do. I promise!  I will get around to blogging about it after the wedding.  But in the meantime, standby my twitter or instagram accounts for some updates (crossing my fingers that there’s some free wifi around!).

Filed Under: dessert bar, thoughts Tagged With: dessert bar, favor, jam, wedding

More Recipes

Healthy Smash Cake for Baby’s 1st Birthday

Injeolmi, 인절미, Roasted Bean Powder, Snowballs

Mugwort, Ssuk, 쑥 Butter Cookies

Reader Interactions

Comments

  1. hungry dog says

    October 1, 2012 at 8:48 pm

    What a lovely thing to do for your sister. The jam looks absolutely gorgeous and so festive. I’m proud of you!

    Reply
  2. Michelle says

    October 8, 2012 at 8:21 am

    MMMMM. I’m going to savor mine forever. 🙂

    Reply
  3. A Little Yumminess says

    October 10, 2012 at 11:38 pm

    Berry lemon jam with lemongrass is a great idea! Need to be invited to this wedding 🙂

    Reply
  4. Julie says

    October 16, 2012 at 1:32 am

    Amazing!!!! Cutest and most thoughtful gift to wedding guests everrr.

    Reply
  5. neha says

    October 17, 2012 at 6:28 pm

    What a great idea! So cute. I love your blog and I’m following you now! Also, your food photography is just lovely!

    I would love for you to swing by my blog and check it out! I do various kinds of photography and I just put up a post about a quick, 10-second, professional-looking cake decorating tip! Please follow if you’d like! I would really appreciate it and would love to hear from you!

    neha
    neha made

    Reply
  6. Michelle says

    October 18, 2012 at 11:38 pm

    Agree! Best favors ever!

    Reply

Leave a Reply Cancel reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.

Primary Sidebar

Hello

Welcome to my site! This is my corner of the internet where I share recipes that are inspired by my Korean background, French training, and American life.

Follow Me

  • Instagram
  • Pinterest
  • Twitter

Popular Recipes

Eggplant in Oyster Sauce

Soboro Bread, Korean Peanut Stresuel Bread, 소보로빵

Mochi Bread with Walnuts, Almonds, and Adzuki Beans

Sweet Korean Pancakes, Hotteok, 호떡

Blueberry Oatmeal Smoothie with Spinach

Instagram

Tried something new yesterday 🍞🎞🎬! Tried something new yesterday 🍞🎞🎬!
Heyyyy I wrote a post! (Yes...it's been a while.) Heyyyy I wrote a post! (Yes...it's been a while.) It's about the smash cake I made for my baby's 1st birthday--an easy recipe made with wholesome ingredients and sweetened with fruits only. 

Even though the cake has no butter, oil, and refined sugar, it still has great bounce and fluff 💫. I frosted it with whipped, unsweetened Greek yogurt and heavy cream, and my baby loved digging into it on her birthday (see last photo). 

The cake also makes a nice snack or breakfast. For that, I skip the frosting and serve plain or I'll make little cake balls with Greek yogurt and hemp seeds which makes it even more filling and nutritious 😋.

This recipe is super quick and simple, and there are a lot of different variations that can be made--all of which are written out in my post. Check out the recipe from the link in my profile!
A day late but Happy Lunar New Year!!! Wishing eve A day late but Happy Lunar New Year!!! Wishing everyone a happy, healthy, and prosperous 2022 🐯🧡. 

Made my mom’s mandu, 만두 🥟, on my own for the first time and it was such a joy feeding them to my fam. Looking forward to more moments like these this coming year 💛!

#lunarneeyear #dumplings
Happy Halloween!!! 🧡👁🖤 PS: Cheeseboard i Happy Halloween!!! 🧡👁🖤

PS: Cheeseboard inspired by @theboard.mom!
My favorite cookie. Yup, I like oatmeal cookies ov My favorite cookie. Yup, I like oatmeal cookies over chocolate chip 😜. It’s probably the granny in me. 

#imsomartha #oatmealcookies #foodblogfeed #oatmeal #thefeedfeedbaking #oats #chewycookies #cookiestagram #pinefor #bombesquad #f52community
First bake post baby! I had to restart midway beca First bake post baby! I had to restart midway because I forgot the sugar 🤦🏻‍♀️. I almost quit because time was running out until the next 🤱🏻 and I still needed to finish up some other chores and food prep for the week. But I’m so happy I made it happen—even though the result wasn’t perfect. I’ve been wanting/needing to scratch that baking itch for awhile now 🙃. Any guesses on what I made? 🌽
Happy Lunar New Year 🐂!! I spent the last two m Happy Lunar New Year 🐂!! I spent the last two months being spoiled and taken care of by my mom. During that time I learned so much from her on how to be a mom and cook her food—the best in my opinion 😆. 

This is my attempt at the 떡만두국, tteok mandu guk, rice cake and 🥟 soup, that she taught me. It’s not quite the same, but hoping that one day my cooking will be as comforting and special to my daughter the way my mom’s is to me 💗.

#lunarnewyear2021 #떡국 #momsfoodisthebest
Happy New Year! Wishing everyone happiness and goo Happy New Year! Wishing everyone happiness and good health in 2021! 🎆
At the beginning of this year, I wrote that 2020 f At the beginning of this year, I wrote that 2020 felt like it was going to be special--it definitely ended up being special for a wide spectrum of reasons. ⁠
⁠
It's been a tough year to say the least, but I hope everyone is able to find a silver lining in all of this. For me, it was having the space to enjoy my pregnancy quietly and with those closest around me, and giving birth to a healthy baby during a pandemic. ⁠
⁠
I don't know what's in store for 2021, but I think I'd be ok if it was a little less explosive than this year 🤣.⁠
⁠
⁠
⁠
⁠
⁠
⁠
⁠
⁠
⁠
#thefeedfeed #f52grams #foodtographyschool #theartofslowliving #foodblogfeed #f52community #imsomartha #pinefor #bombesquad #jessicasdinnerparty

Disclosure–Posts may contain affiliate links, which means I might get a small commission if you make a purchase. This comes at no cost to you and only helps to support my work. Thank you! 

Footer

Copyright© 2025 · Dear Theme by Shay Bocks